fashion_recollections_charity_cowboy_galasLong Ike and Sweet Betsey attended a dance.

Ike wore a pair of his Pike County pants.

Sweet Betsey was covered with ribbons and rings.

Says Ike, “You’re an angel, but where are your wings?”

—“Sweet Betsey from Pike,” folk song printed by John A. Stone, circa 1858


After their hazardous journey to the California goldfields in the 1850s Betsey and Ike, the star-crossed lovers from Pike County, went dancing, as the popular folk song goes. Betsey, all gussied up with ribbons and rings, probably caused a sensation in a mining camp short on females. Thronged by dance partners wearing better pants or offering gold-dusted charms, the not-so-angelic Betsey soon sprouted wings and flew into the arms of another.

From Saturday night “socials” to Sunday morning congregations, gatherings were welcome reprieves from the loneliness and homesickness that afflicted Old West miners, cowboys and sod busters alike. A dance, ball or “hop” with a musician or two brought folks in from miles away. Hell and high water couldn’t keep a “determined female from a frolic,” Dee Brown wrote in his 1958 book about women in the Old West, The Gentle Tamers.

While women were rare on the frontier, that didn’t stop the men from kicking up their heels. Dancing was so important that miners took turns “heifer-branding” themselves with bandanas or aprons as a sign that their dance partner could lead. No wonder sweet Betsey was so popular at that dance.

Our earliest ancestors danced to simultaneously re-enact and celebrate a successful hunt or battle—the male dancers’ moves reprised some act of bravery or mimicked an animal. The women developed their own dances—possibly to distract and entertain the men. How or when the sexes began to dance together is anybody’s guess.

Dance flourished as a form of entertainment and socializing in Europe, and immigrants brought it to America in the form of schottisches, jigs, quadrilles and waltzes. Square dancing with dance callers developed in New England as a way to bridge the different steps, traditions and languages.

The Saturday night dance at the local town hall remained a great tradition across the rural West into the late 1900s. Today’s harvest fairs and rodeos often include street dances in small towns. Tribal dancing, in the form of American Indian powwows, also occurs all over the West.

Throughout its history, people tended to dress up for a dance. Whether dancers were daubed with mud and blood or turned out in their finest livery and powdered wigs, a dance has always encouraged self-expression, not only through dance moves, but also through the clothes worn to the party.

Everyday casual is the dress code for most public dances in the West today, but posh affairs, like the Cattle Baron’s Ball in Dallas, Texas, inspire attendees to “dress Western.” Cowboy-yoked tuxedo jackets and frock coats, elegant gowns and wearable art are the norm for many charity balls as folks from all walks of life turn out in their finest Western threads. Jeans, of course, are optional.

A word of advice as you waltz, polka or line dance: choose your boots carefully. By all means go for comfort, but you’ll get more glide in your stride and more boogie in your boot scoot with leather than you can with grippy synthetic soles.



Cattle Baron’s Ball

October 15, 2011

Dallas, TX

Proceeds benefit the American Cancer Society


Curly’s Cowboy Christmas

Victorville, CA

December 17, 2011

Happy Trails Children’s Foundation founded by Gene Autry and Dale Evans hosts benefit with proceeds going to abused children


Wrangler National Finals Rodeo Style Show & Luncheon

December 8, 2011

Las Vegas, NV

Justin “Cowboy Crisis Fund” proceeds benefit professional rodeo athletes and their families in the event of catastrophic injuries


Buckaroo Ball Gala

June 2012

Santa Fe, NM

Proceeds benefit at-risk children in Santa Fe County


Cattle Baron’s Ball

March 2012

Riverton, WY

All proceeds from the Hats Off for Hope event benefits the “Tough Enough to Help Cancer Fund” & the “Help for Health Hospice Van”

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